It is 8:30 AM on Monday morning. Traffic is at a standstill. You have the most important meeting of your business career in fifteen minutes and you will be late. Very late. A meeting worth several million dollars to your company. A meeting you spent several months in preparation. And, it will all be gone.
The longer you sit in the mass of immobile metal, the worse you feel. You cannot get the negative thoughts out of your head. Your neck starts to hurt and the hint of headache appears. After thirty minutes, traffic begins moving. You finally arrive at your destination only to find the meeting is over.
You missed it.
You manage to avoid getting fired and feel some relief only to find, upon arriving home, your 15 year old daughter has pierced her nose, her tongue and her belly button and has a tattoo the size of Texas across her low back. And it's only Monday.
The physiologic response to the stress of a missed meeting and a tattooed daughter is the same type of response you would have if you opened your door to find a grizzly bear grinning at you. You would either fight or flee. In either case, your heart rate goes up, blood flow to your brain and internal organs goes down and key hormones designed to give you extra energy, like Cortisol, are released. This fight or flight response was designed as a short term solution to immediate stress or danger. We no longer encounter lions, tigers or bears. Yet, the body acts as if we do. Our stress is no longer a short term scuffle or a 200 yard mad dash. It is hours long each and every day. Year after year.
The rise of Cortisol and other stress related hormones in your body releases fat from fat stores into the bloodstream to be used as fuel. But, you are sitting in your car. Doing nothing. You are not demanding any more energy. Meanwhile, the fat flows freely through your blood hoping you will call it into action. But, you do not. The fat then needs to find a home. Some of it is deposited inside the walls of your arteries and some goes to fat banks under your skin. Since the stressor continues throughout the day, so does the fat reaction: release from stores, flow through the blood, deposit on the arterial walls and back into the fat banks.
But, the deposition of fat is just the beginning. When Cortisol levels are too high your:
- Blood pressure rises
- Brain cells die
- Immune system malfunctions
- Sex drive drops
Initially, your appetite decreases but this is a short term response. Before long you're hungry. Insulin is released to promote access to sugar (remember, your body thinks you are fighting or running from a bear) for quick energy. Sugar is released and the body thinks it needs more. Your craving for sugar goes up which is why you reach for a Snickers bar instead of a carrot.
Having consumed the Snickers bar, your body begins to break it down. If your stress level remains elevated, the fat from the Snickers bar, will first float through the blood. But, since you are not moving or using your muscles, the fat will be dropped off for storage. The extra energy goes unused.
When you find yourself craving sweet foods, alcohol or carbohydrate (chips, crackers, pretzels) and you have not just been running from a bear, stop and think about what and how you feel. You are probably overly stressed. There is growing evidence that emotional stress is linked to fat gain and in particular, around the abdomen. A better choice than the Snickers bar is to use our Stress Busting Techniques throughout the day.
Not to stress you out, but I'm out of time. More on how to lower your stress another day.
Make today count.
Doug Kelsey
Author. Teacher. Therapist.
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